It broke a woman’s heart when she found out that her husband was cheating on her, especially when he saw how she told him. She kept her “cool,” though, and had a well-thought-out plan for how she was going to talk to him about it.
A woman who was 37 years old told a story on Reddit about her 38-year-old husband cheating on her a few years ago. She said that she found out about his cheating by chance.
The wife found out that her husband had been lying about going on “work trips” when he was really going on love trips with his mistress.
The woman the man had been cheating with was his co-worker who lived across the country. The man even traveled to her state to visit her.
The Reddit user revealed how she discovered her spouse’s unfaithfulness and divulged how she handled the situation and her reaction to it.
How Did the Reddit User ‘Accidentally’ Find Out Her Husband Was Cheating?
The woman revealed she learned about her spouse’s infidelity when he sent her a screengrab of what he bought for their kids from Amazon. At the bottom of the photo, she saw a delivery addressed to the mistress.
Curious about what she saw in the picture, she checked her partner’s search history and email and found out everything he had been up to up until that point.
At the time, the husband had just come from a trip in November, which was, in fact, a trip for two. After that, he planned on going to another one with his mistress, which the wife described as “luxurious.”
She further explained the trip entailed going to the spa resort where they would get “couples massages,” cooking classes, and “monogrammed bathrobes from Etsy.”
The woman also revealed that her husband had been spoiling his mistress quite often, such as sending her a box of presents for Christmas, buying “sexy lingerie,” and even sending her money.
He also planned on going on a January trip to Las Vegas, and she was livid when she learned about that. However, the woman shared that she was able to contain herself.
The day she shared her story on Reddit, she said her spouse had left for work in the morning and was now strategizing her plan on how to expose him for his infidelity.
The Woman’s Grand Plan On Exposing Her Husband
The Reddit user revealed her master plan for exposing her husband’s cheating and explained it in great detail on the online platform. She disclosed that she spent a month collecting all the evidence that showed that he was unfaithful, including emails and credit card statements. She added:
“[…] I wrote him a 10-page letter, put it in an envelope, and taped it inside the lining of his suitcase.”
She further divulged that she planned on sending a group text to him and his lover immediately after they checked in at their destination, telling them to have a blast on their outing, adding:
“I will also inform them that a letter is in his suitcase and that I want a divorce.”
The woman later updated other Reddit users, telling them when she would send her group text, which she stated would be in the evening, and that they should stay tuned.
She later revealed that once he landed, he never texted her like he said he would. She sent him messages more than once, but they were undelivered. The woman also figured that the mistress must have picked him up at the airport because he was in the state she was living in as he flew alone.
She also learned that he blocked her as her messages were not going through. The woman’s last resort was to call the hotel, and she eventually talked to him. But his reaction left her stunned. She wrote he could not even answer a single one of her questions, which hurt her the most.
“[…] I expected him to be sad, he was not.”
The woman revealed her husband called her after she had a heated exchange with his mistress and expressed no remorse. He did not dispute the divorce suggestion and even told her he would not fight her on the split. She said it was “good riddance” on her part.