I remember that day like it was yesterday. It was supposed to be the happiest day of my life—our wedding day. From the early morning, my parents (my fiancé doesn’t have parents) were busy running around, handling all the last-minute details at the venue.
It’s worth mentioning that my dad was against the wedding. He thought my fiancé was a gold digger, marrying me only for his money.
All the guests had arrived, and we were supposed to start the ceremony, but I hadn’t seen my fiancé all day. I kept calling him, but he wasn’t answering.
The ceremony was already delayed by over an hour, and at that point, I started feeling like something was really wrong.
Suddenly, two police officers walked into the wedding hall and came straight toward me. They handed me a photo of my fiancé.
“Miss Grey, do you know this man?” one of them asked.
My throat dried up. My hands trembled. “Yes. That’s my fiancé… Arlen.”
The older officer nodded grimly. “We need to speak with you privately.”
Whispers rippled through the room. My aunt gasped. One of my bridesmaids dropped her bouquet. I felt like the walls were closing in, but I followed them into a side room.
“He’s been taken into custody this morning,” the officer explained, gently. “We can’t disclose all the details yet, but he was arrested in connection to a fraud investigation. Do you know anything about his financial dealings? Or the name ‘Viktor Lintz’?”
I just stared. “What? No… Arlen works in software development. He’s freelance… I—I thought he was struggling to get clients lately.”
“Actually,” the younger officer said, “he’s been using multiple identities. The name he gave you may not even be real.”
I felt the blood drain from my face.
None of it was real?
I had known Arlen for two years. We met at a mutual friend’s birthday, and he had this quiet charm. Mysterious, yes, but it pulled me in. He said he loved the way I laughed when I didn’t want to. He remembered the tiniest details about me—my favorite toothpaste, my high school dog’s name, the song I listened to on repeat during a breakup. How could someone like that lie?
After the police left, I sat alone in the dressing room for what felt like hours. My mom came in eventually and held my hand, but even she didn’t know what to say. My dad didn’t say “I told you so,” which somehow hurt more.
Two days later, I got a call. Not from Arlen—he was still in custody. But from a woman named Marissa.
“I’m so sorry to bother you, but I found your number in my boyfriend’s phone… under ‘Fiancée.’” Her voice was shaking. “I just… I need to understand. Did you know about me?”
I couldn’t speak. I didn’t even know how to process it. Turns out, she thought they were getting married this summer, too. Different ring. Different story. Same man.
In the following weeks, it all unraveled.
Arlen—or whatever his real name was—had a trail of debts, fake business ventures, and at least three women he’d promised to marry. He’d taken money from one to pay another. A total web of lies.
But here’s where it gets even messier.
While clearing out our shared storage unit, I found a shoebox. Inside it were polaroids, receipts, letters, even an old boarding pass from Berlin dated three years before we met.
There was one photo of him with a little girl, maybe four years old. On the back, it said “Me and Livi – 2017.”
I don’t know who Livi is. I never found her. I don’t know if she’s his daughter, a niece, or another lie. But that box was real. And for the first time, I didn’t feel anger. I felt… pity.
Because somewhere in there, I think there was a real person. One who just got lost under all the pretending.
A month later, I gave the box to the police.
And then I did something I never expected—I booked a solo trip. Just me, a little cabin by the lake in Nova Scotia. No phone signal. No emails. Just books, long walks, and enough quiet to finally hear myself think again.
And I realized something out there:
Being fooled doesn’t mean you’re stupid. It means you believed. And believing in love isn’t the mistake—it’s trusting someone who doesn’t love themselves enough to be honest.
When I came back, I felt lighter. Not healed. Not whole. But a little less broken.
And maybe that’s where healing starts.
So to anyone who’s ever had the rug pulled out from under them—whether in love, family, or friendship—just know: you don’t rebuild overnight. But piece by piece, you do rebuild.
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